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hawkman4321
12-03-2008, 10:52 PM
okay like most of us, i have a small problem when it comes to asking somebody out on a date. i always wait way 2 long and by then they are goin out with somebody else. so i was curious 2 see if any of u other people would have a tip 4 me. although they may not work it may not hurt:)
outlaw
12-03-2008, 10:57 PM
This isn't /b/.
BoomSticker
12-03-2008, 10:58 PM
Shoot if you want nerds to answer your question that dont have any experience with dating... Its hard at first but if you really want her then be a man!
Twilly
12-03-2008, 11:00 PM
Shoot if you want nerds to answer your question that dont have any experience with dating... Its hard at first but if you really want her then be a man!
LOL......
Nah, I have no experience with that. I live in the most rual crap place ever....
Dylan
12-03-2008, 11:01 PM
1. Don't rush it, you will get angry at yourself, which WILL lead to you thinkign you can't do it.
Try finding a time she isn't with a bunch of friends - makes it hella easier.
Do NOT look at your shoes or the floor while talking to her.
Look RIGHT AT HER.
Make sure to shower and brush your teeth more than usual.
Before you ask her out, talk to her a lot and find her interests, you DO NOT want to end up, say, taking her to Tacobell and then finding out she hates Mexican food.
Under no circumstances should you forget her name.
>.<, it's a crap situation, it's happened to me before.(I called Stacy Megan.)
For no reason should you have a friend ask her.
It will end in a lot of pain.
Onserve her, but don't stalk her, what I mean is atch what she does aroudn friends.
Does she cuss alot?
If not, don't cuss around her alot.
Does she seem more of a partier?
Then don't be a stiff.
Does she seem to like talkign about TV/Myspace ro soem crap?
Then ask her about her favorite shwos and what she does on myspace.
Etc.
There is no guaranteed way.
When you are talkign to her, DO NOT ACT LIKE SOMEONE ELSE, you will leave very embaressed after the date, because you wouldn't be what she thought you were.
I can say some more if you need me to.
Calisniper13
12-03-2008, 11:07 PM
Before you ask her out, talk to her a lot and find her interests, you DO NOT want to end up, say, taking her to Tacobell and then finding out she hates Mexican food.
Insult to mexican food everywhere :(
If you really like her, then you should ask her out. Get to know her on a couple dates, and maybe it can become something worthwhile >.>
Dylan
12-03-2008, 11:08 PM
Insult to mexican food everywhere :(
If you really like her, then you should ask her out. Get to know her on a couple dates, and maybe it can become something worthwhile >.>
Rushing into it headfirst is actually not a good idea.
If you go up and ask her out without knowing her much, it's like 80% chance of a no.
Knowing her more first is a lot less chance of a no.
hawkman4321
12-03-2008, 11:09 PM
Shoot if you want nerds to answer your question that dont have any experience with dating... Its hard at first but if you really want her then be a man!
look,jerk off, im not looking fro step by step instructions here, just a simple answer, and btw just cuz ive only had 1 gf and get somewhat good grades or wear glasses dosent make me a nerd. also people who call other people nerds are in fact very nerdy themselves. so stop lying to yourself and acting cool and tuff.
hawkman4321
12-03-2008, 11:12 PM
1. Don't rush it, you will get angry at yourself, which WILL lead to you thinkign you can't do it.
Try finding a time she isn't with a bunch of friends - makes it hella easier.
Do NOT look at your shoes or the floor while talking to her.
Look RIGHT AT HER.
Make sure to shower and brush your teeth more than usual.
Before you ask her out, talk to her a lot and find her interests, you DO NOT want to end up, say, taking her to Tacobell and then finding out she hates Mexican food.
Under no circumstances should you forget her name.
>.<, it's a crap situation, it's happened to me before.(I called Stacy Megan.)
For no reason should you have a friend ask her.
It will end in a lot of pain.
Onserve her, but don't stalk her, what I mean is atch what she does aroudn friends.
Does she cuss alot?
If not, don't cuss around her alot.
Does she seem more of a partier?
Then don't be a stiff.
Does she seem to like talkign about TV/Myspace ro soem crap?
Then ask her about her favorite shwos and what she does on myspace.
Etc.
There is no guaranteed way.
When you are talkign to her, DO NOT ACT LIKE SOMEONE ELSE, you will leave very embaressed after the date, because you wouldn't be what she thought you were.
I can say some more if you need me to.
i ry to 2 all those things, espically tryin 2 get her away from her friends. she practicall is always with her best friend or more.
Very good advice tho. :)
Dylan
12-03-2008, 11:12 PM
look,jerk off, im not looking fro step by step instructions here, just a simple answer, and btw just cuz ive only had 1 gf and get somewhat good grades or wear glasses dosent make me a nerd. also people who call other people nerds are in fact very nerdy themselves. so stop lying to yourself and acting cool and tuff.
If you can stick up for yourself on the net, can you in real life?
Most girls don't like guys that don't stick up for themselves.
But don't try to stage something where you maul someone.
Doesn't work, no matter what TV says.
:D
outlaw
12-03-2008, 11:16 PM
look,jerk off, im not looking fro step by step instructions here, just a simple answer, and btw just cuz ive only had 1 gf and get somewhat good grades or wear glasses dosent make me a nerd. also people who call other people nerds are in fact very nerdy themselves. so stop lying to yourself and acting cool and tuff.
Don't judge someone over the internet, it usally dosen't work out. Most peoples social lives and internet lives are diffrent.
Dylan
12-03-2008, 11:19 PM
Don't judge someone over the internet, it usally dosen't work out. Most peoples social lives and internet lives are diffrent.
Like mine :D
I'm hella odd.
Shy sometimes, almost like I'm crack other times.
Almost always mellow on the net.
o.O
I can also be extremely stupid sometimes, and brilliant others, I really think I'm ADHD is all though...
eatmypoop
12-04-2008, 04:33 PM
okay like most of us, i have a small problem when it comes to asking somebody out on a date. i always wait way 2 long and by then they are goin out with somebody else. so i was curious 2 see if any of u other people would have a tip 4 me. although they may not work it may not hurt:)
If you are having that much trouble with the ladies, gtf off the internet, and get laid.
Easy as 1..2..3.
hawkman4321
12-04-2008, 07:36 PM
Don't judge someone over the internet, it usally dosen't work out. Most peoples social lives and internet lives are diffrent.
i didnt judge anybody except boomsticker and even if i did who are you 2 tell me wat 2 do?get it right before u acuse some1
@eatmypoop
i cant just walk up 2 a chick and say "move those panties aside" u cant just get laid whenever u want unless u go 2 a hooker, and they probly got AIDS. secondly i wudnt take advice from a guy thats screen name is eating sh_t
eatmypoop
12-04-2008, 07:42 PM
i didnt judge anybody except boomsticker and even if i did who are you 2 tell me wat 2 do?get it right before u acuse some1
@eatmypoop
i cant just walk up 2 a chick and say "move those panties aside" u cant just get laid whenever u want unless u go 2 a hooker, and they probly got AIDS. secondly i wudnt take advice from a guy thats screen name is eating sh_t
Lol, I know, I was kidding. :P
And the account name wasn't my idea, it was given to me by a dear friend.
:/
:o
Eiliosdraye
12-04-2008, 07:44 PM
Two ways to ask somebody out.
1: Suck it up and don't be a wuss. Just lay it out there, if she rejects it's fine, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
2: Don't obsess over it, if you make it seem like you depend on the answer to say yes, she will probably reject you.
Oh, and definately don't act like somebody you aren't. Because once you get to know her well you can either tell her or live that lie, which become a pain in the arse - especially when you're going steady. And if you tell her later she might get pissed.
hawkman4321
12-04-2008, 08:06 PM
Two ways to ask somebody out.
1: Suck it up and don't be a wuss. Just lay it out there, if she rejects it's fine, there are plenty of fish in the sea.
2: Don't obsess over it, if you make it seem like you depend on the answer to say yes, she will probably reject you.
Oh, and definately don't act like somebody you aren't. Because once you get to know her well you can either tell her or live that lie, which become a pain in the arse - especially when you're going steady. And if you tell her later she might get pissed.
thanks man, kool avatar btw lol
Dylan
12-04-2008, 08:52 PM
thanks man, kool avatar btw lol
No comment on my posts from experience, and you comments on Eilios copy of what I wrote xD
What ever you do,
do NOT burp, fart, or generally smell bad around her.
Thats one reason I didn't go out with this one guy.
NXTF1DRIVER
12-04-2008, 09:19 PM
ok bro, one you shouldnt ask for advice on the net lol.. why dont you ask some of ur mates at school or something.
ok two.. you will know whether your ugly/fat etc. so be honest with yourself and dont aim wayyy outa your league.
Saying that, its not all about looks, if your a funny guy use that to your advantage... If you can make girls laugh then you have a chance of getting in her... ;) lol
The main rule.. Girls hardly ever make the move.. Never expect a girl to come up to you and ask you out on a date or for your number.. you gotta do all the hard work yourself :p
but once you get a hottayy.. its worth it ;) trusst me hahah
whitesoxguy
12-04-2008, 09:23 PM
nxtf1driver......YOU.....ARE.......A......GOD no but for real thats true if you wanna get a girl you gotta tell her how you feel and get to kno her better and don't ask people online kinda nerdy man = \
TjHooker
12-04-2008, 09:25 PM
okay like most of us, i have a small problem when it comes to asking somebody out on a date. i always wait way 2 long and by then they are goin out with somebody else. so i was curious 2 see if any of u other people would have a tip 4 me. although they may not work it may not hurt:)
get a friend to ask her out for you. a friend who has balls to talk to women. dont get like someone who looks like McLovin. get a McMan(coming this summer to burgerking).
or buy a russian mail order bride, no talking needed. might need a blunt object to teach her english tho.
simplest answer is buying roofies. then ask her. ya dont always have to rape someone when ya roofie them up.
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