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IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 09:59 AM
This chick I know right. She totally thinks shes like wicked fat when she isn't at all. It's like a crazy mental thing, where no matter what she thinks she's fat. I know what your thinking, spoiled little rich girl wanting attention. But you got it all wrong, she doesn't even talk about it, she just is miserable all the time. I've been trying to help her and stuff but nothing I say will set in.

Any advice?

Stonch
07-18-2008, 10:04 AM
Hmm!

Take a picture of her and show that she is not fat.

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 10:10 AM
Here am picture:


http://a4.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/11/m_55d4d3957551d6b01daddfe303630123.jpg

Edit:
Here am better picture:

http://a872.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/3/m_62d05ec6f396bc1cef4b8e2e645a8bb7.jpg

Beef
07-18-2008, 11:45 AM
first pic is better :/ and she isnt fat O:

outlaw
07-18-2008, 11:48 AM
First pic is better tbh.

Anyways on the topic she's well fit.

You should make her feel fit somehow O_o

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 11:59 AM
But how, I don't know howe.
I always sweet talk to her and stuff, but she never believes I actually find her beautiful.
BTW, I just did second pic so you could see more of her body, not just face.

superquebec
07-18-2008, 12:02 PM
she is sexy xD hum I have the same problem with a friend --,,--'' noone has the answer I think O_O

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 12:03 PM
she is sexy xD hum I have the same problem with a friend --,,--'' noone has the answer I think O_O

She's mine fool!:D
I know though dude, I'll never understand girls.

UreOnMyHitList
07-18-2008, 05:51 PM
if shes fat then iam fat ohhhh knows
lol no way in heck shes fat

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 06:54 PM
I know but how do I get her to relaize that.

UreOnMyHitList
07-18-2008, 07:07 PM
I know but how do I get her to relaize that.

show her pics of fat ppl, an tell her to compare herself to em?

superquebec
07-18-2008, 07:10 PM
show her pics of fat ppl, an tell her to compare herself to em?




LOL !1 i WAS GONNA SAY the EXACT same thing!!! xD Show her a good picture of a famuily at the mcdonald!

xfinalx
07-18-2008, 07:11 PM
Compliment how skinny she looks, then grab your fat backside and b.itch about how fat you think you are.

buffoldguy
07-18-2008, 07:12 PM
Shes fat. Get over it and she will too.

RockLuigi
07-18-2008, 07:14 PM
are you sure shes sad because she's fat? because she isnt fat at all

xfinalx
07-18-2008, 07:16 PM
Shes fat. Get over it and she will too.
Harsh factor >.<

She isn't fat, I've seen full body pics he spammed to me over AIM.

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 07:32 PM
Lol cruzr, I remember that night.

xfinalx
07-18-2008, 07:38 PM
then he threatened me with bro love after we listened to sad music for hours.
:D

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 07:42 PM
Dude, it wasn't a threat.
I told you that we had a comic chi love thing happenin'.

I meant every word.

Cruzr
07-18-2008, 07:43 PM
I love you Irish, man.
Bro love happens.
You really helped me and I hope I helped you too.

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 07:50 PM
Awww, thanks dude.
I bro love you too.

Calisniper13
07-18-2008, 08:34 PM
She is anorexic most likely. Google it because I know not how to help someone with that condition.

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 08:37 PM
I know not either dude.
I don't think she is anorexic though.
She just looks normal.

Apocolyptic
07-18-2008, 09:24 PM
It is perfectly normal for females to fit themselves into a category of..how do you say this...ehh brb.

Here's advice:
A1: She must be wanting to look like something in another way. Have you talked to her about that? A2: Females generally refer to themselves as somewhat obese or not pretty for their mate to pay attention more.
A1: I used to think myself as a bit 'fat' around the thighs a couple months back. But that was because some girls whispered behind my back or because I felt a bit tired and felt like I was dragging pounds or wanted to look like something else.
A2: Yeah seriously. In my opinion females do this for attention.
A1: She's not sick with anything, its just a stage some girls go over. We want to look as normal as possible, or as "pretty" as possible, there are thoughts like that passing through our minds along with some other social stuff.
The best thing to do now is just to go along with it and support her and she will eventually go over this stage soon enough.
A2: If that doesn't work I'd go along with the McDonald's option.

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 09:25 PM
So you think she wants attention or something?

Apocolyptic
07-18-2008, 09:37 PM
So you think she wants attention or something?

She's going through a stage some girls go through. It will pass.

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 09:38 PM
Well how long does this "stage" last? Because I'm about to say **** it and agree with her.

Apocolyptic
07-18-2008, 09:41 PM
A2: How should I know?

A1: It normally depends on the age of the female. But for me it only took a month or so. <now 16>
Tell me her age then maybe I can figure it out.

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 09:43 PM
She r 11.

And what is up with these answers?
R they in real life r something?

Apocolyptic
07-18-2008, 09:48 PM
She r 11.

And what is up with these answers?
R they in real life r something?

11 years old? She looks more like 15 or 16.
A2 is me
A1 is twin sister.

And no I'm male -_-.

If she's 11 it will die out soon, at the end of the stage she will joke or tease about it. Then you will know when its over.

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 09:48 PM
By 11 I meant 17.

Sorry dude lol.

poe101591
07-18-2008, 09:53 PM
i'm with apocolyptic, this can just be a stage, it can also be a self-esteem issue, ether way it goes, just support her in it. I personally don't care for appearance, its how they act feel and think that matters to me.

if you over do the whole 'your not fat' thing she will think your just trying to cheer her up, once she really believes that she is no fat then it will be over

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 09:54 PM
Aw crap, **** it.
I'm done, she's fat.

Apocolyptic
07-18-2008, 09:55 PM
Then it will be at least 1-1 1/2 months. Try to avoid the topic of her being fat or change conversation quickly to something else before she goes on about how fat she is. If she's joking/teasing about it soon, its over. Just keep doing what your doing except avoid the topic.

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 09:55 PM
I'm sorry, I'm a retard for saying that, her body is smokin' and I SHOULD GO TELL HER THAT.

HINT HINT IRISH!

^Now you made me double post you jack ***^

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 09:56 PM
Thanks Apoc.
You've helped me out man.
Bro love?

poe101591
07-18-2008, 09:56 PM
Aw crap, **** it.
I'm done, she's fat.

what i'm trying to say is love her for who she is, if its a stage then it will be over soon, if its self-esteem then that will be what you should do to cure it.

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 09:57 PM
Thanks Apoc.
You've helped me out man.
Bro love?

I thought that was a chick :O
Said something about the female stages, and then talked about when she/he went through it...

^Stop with the god dammed posting! Get on Cruzr or something!^

Scrubs
07-18-2008, 09:57 PM
Dude I knew a girl jut like that on Pawn. She kept calling herself fat and seemed to be upset a lot because of school. Coincidence, maybe...? What nationality is she?

niceguyeddie
07-18-2008, 09:57 PM
girls only say that so you will tell them thyre hot.

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 09:58 PM
I love who she is, I love who she aint.

It's just killing me man. Girls are a lot of god dammed work.

poe101591
07-18-2008, 10:00 PM
I love who she is, I love who she aint.

It's just killing me man. Girls are a lot of god dammed work.

then don't worry about it and make sure she knows you love her for who she is, not how she looks(even if you do love her for how she looks, don't tell her) this will get her over the fact she is 'fat' much faster then trying to tell her she isn't fat

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 10:01 PM
So just roll with it?

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 10:01 PM
I thought that was a chick :O
Said something about the female stages, and then talked about when she/he went through it...

^Stop with the god dammed posting! Get on Cruzr or something!^

I'm trying to help you here >.>

EDIT: nice one artard, made YOU double post D:

Apocolyptic
07-18-2008, 10:02 PM
Thanks Apoc.
You've helped me out man.
Bro love?

Lol, I wasn't the one who helped you. It was my sister.(A2/Purple letters)
She's useful for something now! :D

Edit: I meant A1 -_-

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 10:03 PM
Sis love?

BTW, Cruzr has haxxzorzed me, don't pay attention to him.

xfinalx
07-18-2008, 10:03 PM
Lol, I wasn't the one who helped you. It was my sister.(A2/Purple letters)
She's useful for something now! :D
Told you.




........


I didn't haxx0r you...sorta.
GET ON AIM NOWLOLWTFHAXACATS.

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 10:04 PM
Shut up, I'm gunna get Cruzr bant now.

xfinalx
07-18-2008, 10:05 PM
Shut up, I'm gunna get Cruzr bant now.
The hell you are.

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 10:06 PM
I bet I can get Cruzr bant faster then you can get Irish bant.

Cruzr
07-18-2008, 10:06 PM
You better not....


Also, don't do what Th3 said, making her compare herself will come back and haunt yer arse.

poe101591
07-18-2008, 10:07 PM
Shut up, I'm gunna get Cruzr bant now.

The hell you are.

lol this will be fun to watch :)

Cruzr
07-18-2008, 10:07 PM
Bring it on.

IrishOwnzNewbz
07-18-2008, 10:08 PM
I bet I can get Cruzr bant faster then you can get Irish bant.

OK THEN *****.

Cruzr
07-18-2008, 10:09 PM
I win.....