Love, Relationships

[Knis]

Okay. I have a crush on this girl, my age, and she knows I have a crush on her. The problem is, I'm homeschooled, I don't have her AIM/EMAIL, and I will only see her in January to...May-ish. What should I do?

Keep in mind...I lack confidence. V_V

Also: Please. Serious answers only. I don't want crap like: YOU LACK CONFIDENCE LOLZ!

[Knis]

Nice to see how much you guys value true love... >_>

[spr51]

Smart move asking a game for advice. w/e i say u find conections and be her friend and her friends friend. know her and let her know u.. dont be a stalker =P be creative

[TheRealOutlaw5]

if you dont have the balls to ask the girl out/play around with her, you'll never get her. simple as that.

[gh0st]

whisper in her ear, do u like me?
if so,
......*stupid confidence kiking in!*
.....
can i hav ur aim and or email adress...?
*starts to overly sweat....*

[TheRealOutlaw5]

whisper in her ear, do u like me?
if so,
......*stupid confidence kiking in!*
.....
can i hav ur aim and or email adress...?
*starts to overly sweat....*

um, no, you ask for a phone number :rolleyes:

and whispering in her ear will probably creep her out
you have to say you like her and she will say if she likes you or not right after

[Chickletman]

Say some jokes that's how I get em! >:]

[USxWarrior]

Smart move asking a game for advice. w/e i say u find conections and be her friend and her friends friend. know her and let her know u.. dont be a stalker =P be creative

^^^Idiot move. You do that and you'll only be her best friend.

Now what you have to do is just ask for her AIM. You said that she knows that you like her right? And hell it's actaully better for you than getting her phone number first. If you're shy get her AIM, that way you won't get too nervous and screw up. And also, she probably knows you like her, and that you are shy, so she might understand. Then after you are more comfortable talking to her(via AIM) then get her number, and ask her out(NOT OVER AIM, DO IT OVER THE PHONE IF NOT FACE TO FACE)

Basically just go and ask for her AIM. It's that simple. Just try not to have your voice crack ;)

Was the same way at your age. Wasn't good at talking to girls. Hey the worst that can happen is that she says no. Then you will get over it in about a week.

[gunslinger64]

Say some jokes that's how I get em! >:]

YES!! that rly works i do that all the time thats why chicks dig me :D

[lostvoid]

From what I have discerned, neither you nor the girl know each other very well. I'm assuming the 'liking' you feel towards her is perhaps lust - mostly. Regardless, one thing to do is 'make' her like you or rather give her a reason to like you. Since you will [only?] see her in January [or after] then there isn't too much you can do besides getting to know her friends, if possible.

Also, you might be interested by a similar thread from the C&C: Renegade community, n00bless; girl help (http://www.n00bless.com/showthread.php?t=3718).

[Knux57]

Well...Call her and ask for her AIM or Myspace.
That's really all...

[Chickletman]

LMAO get her to play pawn xD

[Knis]

XD

Actually, Lostvoid, I do know her pretty well. So yeah. I have a strange feeling her father is super strict though... Now what?

[troll]

1) Drink a soda
2) Throw soda can at her head
3) Hide behind something when she turns to look
4) When she turns around, run up to her
5) Ask if someone threw a soda can at her
6) Get into a conversation

[vSkyzv]

Okay. I have a crush on this girl, my age, and she knows I have a crush on her. The problem is, I'm homeschooled, I don't have her AIM/EMAIL, and I will only see her in January to...May-ish. What should I do?

Keep in mind...I lack confidence. V_V

Also: Please. Serious answers only. I don't want crap like: YOU LACK CONFIDENCE LOLZ!

I wouldn't get tips here. DO NOT DO WHAT FUZE SAYS!

[Andrew02111]

1) Drink a soda
2) Throw soda can at her head
3) Hide behind something when she turns to look
4) When she turns around, run up to her
5) Ask if someone threw a soda can at her
6) Get into a conversation

Lolz. I'm still trying to get me a gf so i woudlnt know :confused:

[USxWarrior]

Lolz. I'm still trying to get me a gf so i woudlnt know :confused:

That's what I did when I met my first GirlFriend. Except I threw a brick at her, and ended up calling an ambulance. :lol: J/K

[USxWarrior]

1) Drink a soda
2) Throw soda can at her head
3) Hide behind something when she turns to look
4) When she turns around, run up to her
5) Ask if someone threw a soda can at her
6) Get into a conversation

FUZE

GIVE ME YOUR AVI. I MUST HAVE IT!!! HE IS GOD, AND THIS IS SPAM. sorry

[shodemon666]

seriously...???? *whispering* on pawn???

Ok, Ok..... be funny but charming.

U wanna score....so soon??? PM if u wan the answer to that*

say something smooth, like, what would it take for a guy like me to know a gurl like u....better?

then ask for her number, and email, etc.

Talk to urself in the mirror, dude.... don't you young whipper-snappers do that??
*close the door, dude*

[xxxBlackRosexx]

well erm like spr51 said be creative and tell her how much you like her...
since im a girl i should know a bit =P

[USxWarrior]

But he's too shy to go out on a limb like that. But seriously just get her AIM or number first to talk. Then ask her out. xxxBlack, you'd probably find that funny. Having some guy come up and completly screw up. :)

[Blackrulez]

wow, its amazing how many people have love issues like me xD!!!!!
Here's blacky's process to dating:
1 Just don't annoy or creep the girl out... be a bit shady and talk to her a couple of times each day, she'll get to know you better,
2 after at least 3 weeks, ask her for her phone# (or just look in the directory) then ask for her AIM (predators beware) if she gives you her AIM, you're in the hot seat,
3 after you get both of them, start talking to her on a daily basis, you'll eventually become a close friend (not even close to the smooching yet) after awhile, if she's a really tight friend, you can invite her over, or she'll invit you over, then its your time to ask,
4 when you're at her house, you can ask her out (not a very good idea anyway) or you can ask her out any other time, AS LONG AS YOUR HER CLOSE FRIEND,
5 after you guys go out, if the date's a success, then she'll become your GF!!!!!! after that you can just make out and crap....
Extra info o yea btw, you should go to the school that she goes to (try begging your parents)

P.S. i've never tried this out, the girl that likes me HATES me, but i didn't do any of the things i posted above

[USxWarrior]

wow, its amazing how many people have love issues like me xD!!!!!
Here's blacky's process to dating:
1 Just don't annoy or creep the girl out... be a bit shady and talk to her a couple of times each day, she'll get to know you better,
2 after at least 3 weeks, ask her for her phone# (or just look in the directory) then ask for her AIM (predators beware) if she gives you her AIM, you're in the hot seat,
3 after you get both of them, start talking to her on a daily basis, you'll eventually become a close friend (not even close to the smooching yet) after awhile, if she's a really tight friend, you can invite her over, or she'll invit you over, then its your time to ask,
4 when you're at her house, you can ask her out (not a very good idea anyway) or you can ask her out any other time, AS LONG AS YOUR HER CLOSE FRIEND,
5 after you guys go out, if the date's a success, then she'll become your GF!!!!!! after that you can just make out and crap....
Extra info o yea btw, you should go to the school that she goes to (try begging your parents)

P.S. i've never tried this out, the girl that likes me HATES me, but i didn't do any of the things i posted above

NOOOOOO!!!!
you don't really want to be a close friend before you ask her out! Unless you really want to freak her out to the point of never seeing her again. Just get to know her a little, and ask her out. DON'T BECOME A CLOSE FRIEND FIRST.

[Knis]

I forgot to mention. I'm homeschooled. She goes to school school.

[USxWarrior]

I forgot to mention. I'm homeschooled. She goes to school school.

That's what I thought the case was. Still get her AIM as soon as possible. NEXT TIME YOU SEE HER!!! You hesitate, you lose, plain and simple.

[FATTYCANTJUMP]

You lack confidence?

Hm...

Heres a trick to try:

Look in the mirror, if you think you look good, chances are other people will think you look good too.

Oh, and if you are gonna ask her out, make sure you smell good... thats always a plus for girls...

[Knis]

One problem. I jsut can't seem to talk to her... V_V

[USxWarrior]

One problem. I jsut can't seem to talk to her... V_V

fatty was true
buy some old spice, or some other cologne. [but don't pour on the whole bottle] just TALK TO HER. I mean does she live in a different town, find some reason to talk to her, be creative.

[invalidname]

1.) Fuze what you said made me and my brother laugh our arses off.
2.) It really isn't that hard to ask a girl out, just go up to her and say: "Wanna go to the movies some time"? or some shiz like that, if she says no, then sucks for you, most likely she will say yes depending on how good looking you are and what your personality is like and what not.

[outlaw5]

You lack confidence?

Hm...

Heres a trick to try:

Look in the mirror, if you think you look good, chances are other people will think you look good too.

Oh, and if you are gonna ask her out, make sure you smell good... thats always a plus for girls...

not to offend, but if you think you look good you're probably ghay if you can judge yourself like that

[Pooshonmyshoos]

Okay. I have a crush on this girl, my age, and she knows I have a crush on her. The problem is, I'm homeschooled, I don't have her AIM/EMAIL, and I will only see her in January to...May-ish. What should I do?

Keep in mind...I lack confidence. V_V

Also: Please. Serious answers only. I don't want crap like: YOU LACK CONFIDENCE LOLZ!


Nice to see how much you guys value true love... >_>


Your not in true love. <.< Crush more like it. You even said it in your first post.

um, no, you ask for a phone number :rolleyes:

and whispering in her ear will probably creep her out
you have to say you like her and she will say if she likes you or not right after

Seriously. ^.^

1) Drink a soda
2) Throw soda can at her head
3) Hide behind something when she turns to look
4) When she turns around, run up to her
5) Ask if someone threw a soda can at her
6) Get into a conversation


I tried that and found a flaw. You did not specify how much to drink so I threw a half a can of soda at her and she went to the bathroom after because she was sticky and she spent the whole lunchtime in their. :(

J/k but yeah don't do that. ^.^
You lack confidence?

Hm...

Heres a trick to try:

Look in the mirror, if you think you look good, chances are other people will think you look good too.

Oh, and if you are gonna ask her out, make sure you smell good... thats always a plus for girls...


That was just stupid.

Now what if he goes into the mirror and finds himself ugly? His lack of confidence goes down from .1 to -100.

You know what the truth is? If you look in the mirror and think you look good in the situation you just explained, then that means your full of yourself, and no women will ever want you.

You don't think 'Do I look good' you think "I do look good" WITHOUT even looking in mirror. Its a fact, you always look good. (Not really, but it keeps your self esteem high and you saw the cutting commercials? "Am I beautiful enough now" written in blood by the girl who cut herself.) ^.^ The mirror is only to check for leftover makeup on your lips from your previous date.




not to offend, but if you think you look good you're probably ghay if you can judge yourself like that

Seriously. ^>^ I have tried to judge myself or other guys (JUST TO SEE IF I COULD DO IT) and I can not. :(

But you know what that tells me? I am lacking in the heterosexual department and am not comfortable with my current self as with all other women and men.