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Well..Yeah I'm a PA, (but notice how it says PAWN assistant) and I'm asking for a lil help :o
And guess what? It's about girls (sorta) YAY!
Okay so..
Me and my mates usually go into town after school to go grab a coffee or something from a cafe..
These REALLY pretty gals are almost always in there, and I really wanna say 'hi' to them, but I dunno how to do so..:o
Any tips in getting to know them without it being epic fail?
:p
Plus, my mates have been saying that they keep giving looks at me, so that makes me feel a lil better :D
So, to summarise:
1. How would you get to know these girls without epic fail?
2. Would it seem weird to YOU if the same thing happened (two guys/girls come over and start talking)
D:
Help :p
Calisniper13
01-28-2009, 12:52 PM
You: Do you know how much a polar bear weighs?
Her:How much? or something similar
You:Enough to break the ice
Lolque. Use it
Ravin
01-28-2009, 01:06 PM
I remember what happened last time xD
Walk over, introduce yourself and tell her how beautiful she looks.
Get to know her over a few coffees and you'll be doing it in no time xD
nemi011
01-28-2009, 01:06 PM
first impressions count soo if you do say what he said (calisniper) they'd probably wouldn't take you seriously lol
you can but...i wouldnt recommend it
anyway, just go over talk normally.
I remember what happened last time xD
Walk over, introduce yourself and tell her how beautiful she looks.
Get to know her over a few coffees and you'll be doing it in no time xD
Lolslap xD.
first impressions count soo if you do say what he said (calisniper) they'd probably wouldn't take you seriously lol
you can but...i wouldnt recommend it
anyway, just go over talk normally.
Talk normally about what? D:
I wouldn't know how to start speaking haha xD
EaEaEa
01-28-2009, 03:25 PM
Lol @ nerds giving advice.
Add Twilly on MSN, he will help you, Lmfao.
dpmorenos007
01-28-2009, 03:26 PM
Clinically, I would let them make the first move and if they come over or something try not to act completely stupid or do anything that would make them want to leave. Act mysterious about everything. It really gets their attention.
maggerz
01-28-2009, 03:33 PM
Tell them to take it in the pooper or GTFO.
outlaw5
01-28-2009, 03:43 PM
You: Hi, how's it going?
Them: We're lesbians.
EaEaEa
01-28-2009, 03:45 PM
You: Hi, how's it going?
Them: We're lesbians.
/dream
Well
1)Get coffee
2)Introduce yourself
3)???
4)PROFIT
buffoldguy
01-28-2009, 04:09 PM
Dont be shy. Be confident. Introduce yourself
IrishDragon1234
01-28-2009, 04:14 PM
/dream
Well
1)Get coffee
2)Introduce yourself
3)???
4)PROFIT
lol old south park episodes ftw!
Anyway on topic, try doing your homework while in the cafe. The idea is that they will pop over and tell you an answer or they'll come over and ask you to help them with your own homework. Give 'em a first impression of you being smart and/or helpful.
SketchZ
01-28-2009, 04:19 PM
Spill hot coffee on her. Duh. :d
garrou
01-28-2009, 04:20 PM
depends on how old you are m8..
highschool+ is this...
if they are sitting near the counter walk over to the counter and buy something, while you're waiting for your coffee compliment on her necklace/ring/etc you'll get talking and let your -cough- brain do the work from there
Seriously, just be confident. Two things could happen:
1) You strike up a friendship(which may or may not) lead to more
2) She strikes you down like a bug and you declare her to be insensitive and get on with your life.
PieDude
01-28-2009, 05:47 PM
xD never ask twilly D:
he talks about strange things O_O
pwnyou2much
01-28-2009, 07:17 PM
ok heres some good tips your at a cafe right?
well if you know her name stalk her myspace and get some info on what she likes
then do this
1)drink some coffe look at her if she looks back go up to her and say hey
2)introduce
3)be funny
4)make aquantince with her
5)buy her something
6)talk about what she likes :) act like you like them
7)ask her out to a date or to be a girlfreind
GL on girls man i would laugh if these girls play pawn lmao..
outlaw
01-28-2009, 07:20 PM
Bump into her.
"Accidentally" spill coffee on her.
DESU
PROFIT
o hai.
MetalGoddess
01-29-2009, 12:08 AM
Most girls hate nervous guys. Honestly, it's better to come off as a (edit, got censored -- ddick) than a scared shy spineless guy. Go up and buy something, flash her a confident, friendly smile, maybe nod once. Just strike up a convo. Don't stutter, don't fidget.
Kahuna
01-29-2009, 12:12 AM
Galm you should ask one out, be a man dont be a shy wuss.
KingTroycool2
01-29-2009, 12:21 AM
listen to me...ive had 14 girlfriend sin the last 2 years..kk
1. go up to them
2.introduce yourself (dont be shy at all...show confidence)
3. they will probably introduce themselves
4. think of something to talk about like where they are from or if you have them in school, like what classes do u have and stuff like that
5. if they seem unintrested just say see ya around...but if they seem interested stay.
6. try to be funny (do NOT overdue it)
7. everything else is in your hands
airsoftman03
01-29-2009, 12:25 AM
Lol at British people. You are so funny......
1. How would you get to know these girls without epic fail?
Just hang around them and, well, depends on if you know them. If not thats a little awkward. Idk how British people do it, but like in America, we call it "chill with em" and get to know em. Im sure if you dont do anything stupid they will like you.
2. Would it seem weird to YOU if the same thing happened (two guys/girls come over and start talking)
no not really. Its human nature really. If they dont like you then thats there problem. Be assertive when it comes to chicks (thats what i say)
Like i said, brits are awesome!
TheCondemned
01-29-2009, 12:29 AM
just walk over there say hi ask her how her coffee is and start talking about ur interests and then ask her about hers
and how old are u lol u sound like ur 10 and u still beleive that girls have coodies lol
Lol at British people. You are so funny......
1. How would you get to know these girls without epic fail?
Just hang around them and, well, depends on if you know them. If not thats a little awkward. Idk how British people do it, but like in America, we call it "chill with em" and get to know em. Im sure if you dont do anything stupid they will like you.
2. Would it seem weird to YOU if the same thing happened (two guys/girls come over and start talking)
no not really. Its human nature really. If they dont like you then thats there problem. Be assertive when it comes to chicks (thats what i say)
Like i said, brits are awesome!
I may be British but I'm not a complete moron :p
I CAN understand termonoligy, so don't treat me like I'm some sorta brain dead simpleton :D
Thanks for the tips though ;) - to you, and everyone else..
xfam0usx
01-29-2009, 03:08 PM
ummmmmmmmmm
Well if you're like me I'm shy so I don't know. Get someone else to do it or muster up some nerve.
KyubiNaruto
01-29-2009, 06:58 PM
/dream
Well
1)Get coffee
2)Introduce yourself
3)???
4)PROFIT
theres some kind of flirting technique thats supposed to get to her everytime i think its:
1. say hi
2. complement her
3. complement her accesories
4. if she rejects, and tried to walk away, call her out saying like this "yo bish you think ur better dan me? yea thats right I didnt studder, especially with those cheap (acessory) you call a(n) (accesory)
5. shes urs, maybe secks :o
I saw this on that movie "4 xmas's"y funny
jack98
01-29-2009, 07:09 PM
You: Do you know how much a polar bear weighs?
Her:How much? or something similar
You:Enough to break the ice
Lolque. Use it
omfg do you want him to be LAUGHED AT thats like freaking CORNY dont use it :eek:
jack98
01-29-2009, 07:15 PM
and btw a girl should post to help you hey they would know lol :P
MetalGoddess
01-29-2009, 10:06 PM
Most girls hate nervous guys. Honestly, it's better to come off as a (edit, got censored -- ddick) than a scared shy spineless guy. Go up and buy something, flash her a confident, friendly smile, maybe nod once. Just strike up a convo. Don't stutter, don't fidget.
^^I am a girl and I posted.
nemi011
01-30-2009, 04:25 PM
You: Hi, how's it going?
Them: We're lesbians.
i've done that once XD 'twas really funny
(i'm a girl)
garrou
01-30-2009, 04:33 PM
Well if you're like me I'm shy so I don't know. Get someone else to do it or muster up some nerve.
Spam. ^^^^^^^http://i270.photobucket.com/albums/jj110/garrou/1232590028722.jpg
I suggest just be confident, buy a drink, start up a conversation
RedSkittle
01-31-2009, 10:24 AM
Pick the one you like the most, or you can go for all of them, lol.
Walk over, introduce yourself, ask to sit down. Now don't move in on the first day. Use a couple days to get more comfortable. Also, if the conversation ever stops, bring up something.
Anything do-able. Its really awkward when the convo stops!
:D
Bring a flask with some hard liquor in it and hope for the best.
KyubiNaruto
01-31-2009, 12:41 PM
Bring a flask with some hard liquor in it and hope for the best.
and bring a condom if thats what you mean
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